Reach out to touch
As men we have a strong need to hold hands, to be held, to hug, receive a nonsexual massage, have our face or arms stroked, be cuddled, caressed, etc.
Touch can be richly enjoyed for its own sake, and not just as a prelude to sex. Touch is a powerful way to communicate empathy, friendship, approval, affirmation and love to one another.
Touch messages are transmitted to our brain through a network of over 100 billion neurons. Once the brain receives the touch message, it has powerful effects, stimulating the production of chemicals that provide physical good feelings, as well as good emotions by combining with certain hormones and enzymes in the blood.
If you want more touch in your life, you must risk reaching out to touch. Sometimes you will be rejected, but the joy from the times when you can find another sincere toucher far outweigh the times of rejection. Be sensitive to the fact that some types of touch are more appropriate than others for new relationships or strangers. A touch to the arm can be a non threatening way to get a feel of the others comfort level.
Hugs are easy, portable, saves heat, provides stretching exercise if you are short, requires no special equipment, does not upset the environment, yet makes happy days happier, makes impossible days possible, a cure for depression and loneliness and eases tension. All that is required is two participating humans.
Erotic massage techniques can also be wonderful for those that are comfortable with more pleasure sharing. Sensate focusing techniques can also be pleasurable without having to take off clothing yet can explore pleasurable touch.
Naked body play for men
Indulge yourself with hours of body to body erotic massage and nude slide - wet or slick or both - foreplay, touching, sex talk, aural, wrestling, role play, nudity, cuddling, laughter, groping, watching, stroking and a whole lot more.
