I have premature ejaculation. Can you help me with this disease?
Premature ejaculation is not a disease so medicines won't make a difference. You could try therapy but
most therapists suggest medicines or the stop-start method, neither of which works well.
You are not diseased and the problem you have arises from either youthful exuberance or from a stress-related
issue or a medical issue.
You could enlarge your ideas about what sex is. For example, mutual oral sex and masturbation can be as exciting as intercourse
and with role playing and toys can be even more exciting. Do you always have to penetrate?
You could also stop thinking that you have a problem. The more you think about it the more likely you are to worry when
it comes to having sex.
You could relax and enjoy having sex with "her" even after you have ejaculated. (Does she get to orgasm?)
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