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Ejaculation

Ejaculation is the process of ejecting semen from the penis, and is usually accompanied by orgasm as a result of sexual stimulation. It may also occur spontaneously during sleep (called a nocturnal emission) or due to stimulation of the prostate.

  1. Can herbal pills increase ejaculate?
    Herbal products marketed as remedies for increasing ejaculatory quantity often contain the same or similar ingredients as those for controlling premature ejaculation or increasing penis size. Anise, cantharides, don qual, estrogens, fennel, ginseng, golden seal, gotu kola, Korean ginseng, liquorice, mandrake, methyl testosterone, minerals, nux vomica, Pega Palo, sarsaparilla, strychnine, testosterone, vitamins, yohimbine, yohimbine hydrochloride, and yohimbinum are among the most popular.
  2. Can I choose which testicle to ejaculate from?
    Your testicles produce sperm which is added to fluids from the Cowper's Gland and the prostate and which pass through the urethra and are ejaculated from your penis.
  3. Can I strengthen my penis to have better climaxes?
    Your penis is not a muscle, so strengthening it isn't really possible.
  4. Can I taste my semen?
    Yes, though you have to get some in your mouth first.
  5. Does ejaculation decrease testosterone levels?
    Masturbation is very unlikely to decrease testosterone levels. Semen is not the source of testosterone so ejaculation will not cause levels to change.
  6. Does precum have sperm in it?
    Yes.
  7. Dry orgasm
    A dry orgasm is a sexual climax that does not result in ejaculation. The term only refers to orgasms experienced by males.
  8. How can I lengthen the time it takes me to cum?
    Anyone can learn ejaculatory control. However, it does take time, practise and perseverance.
  9. How can I make my ejaculate more fluid?
    I am 20 years old and my ejaculate is thicker and creamier than it used to be. Is there anything I can do to get it back to a more fluid state?
  10. How can I make my ejaculate taste better?
    In general, nutritionists say that alkaline-based foods such as meats and fish produce a butter, fish taste.
  11. How do I know if I am ejaculating too early?
    One study defines early ejaculators as men who ejaculated thirty seconds to a minute after penetration. Another study chose to define it as men who ejaculated following five to ten thrusts after initial penetration.
  12. How long does it take a guy to ejaculate?
    Anything from a few seconds to several hours. Ejaculation times vary and can depend on what you are doing (a quick wank or slow foreplay), how you are feeling (tired, stressed, relaxed) and how long it has been since you last ejaculated.
  13. How many men have tasted their own cum?
    Impossible to say: no studies have ever been carried out to find out. Why don't you ask some of your friends?
  14. I have premature ejaculation. Can you help me with this disease?
    Premature ejaculation is not a disease so medicines won't make a difference. You could try therapy but most therapists suggest medicines or the stop-start method, neither of which works well.
  15. Is eating ejaculate harmful?
    That depends whose ejaculate it is.
  16. Is it safe to eat my semen for extra protein?
    There is nothing wrong with eating your own semen. You won't get ill or catch any diseases; though depending on what you have eaten recently, sometimes it may not taste all that good.
  17. Is semen fattening?
    No.
  18. Is there any way to increase the volume of ejaculate?
    I am not aware of anything that can alter your normal volume of ejaculate other than the subtle effects of a balanced diet, adequate sleep, etc.
  19. Should I be worried about the colour of my semen?
    I am 23 and straight, though I've never had a girlfriend or sex and I don't masturbate. But I wonder why my semen is clear and totally colourless. Please help me because I want to know whether this is something to worry about.
  20. The passage of sperm
    Ejaculation occurs in two steps. During the first step, the seminal fluid is forced from the prostate and other accessory organs into the urethra. The impending ejaculation can be felt at this point, and for 2 or 3 seconds, one can sense the process before the second step begins.
  21. What does semen look like?
    When you are young, semen is a colourless, thin, sticky, clear fluid, that gradually becomes milkier as you grow older.
  22. What is ejaculation?
    Ejaculation is the process of ejecting semen from the penis, and is usually accompanied by orgasm as a result of sexual stimulation. It may also occur spontaneously during sleep (called a nocturnal emission), due to stimulating of the prostate or, rarely, due to prostatic disease.
  23. What is the clear fluid that dribbles out after I cum?
    Up to 30 minutes after ejaculating, a clear fluid is released from my penis. Is this normal?
  24. What is the mucous fluid that comes out of my penis?
    I am aged 28 years and single. Often in the mornings my erect penis releases a mucous fluid. Is it released because my body has produced too much fluid? And should I release this during intercourse?
  25. What is the normal quantity of ejaculate?
    The average quantity is between half and one teaspoon.
  26. What is the white stuff in his underwear?
    My boyfriend has white stuff in his underwear. We are not sleeping together when it occurs. What is it?
  27. When will my son cum?
    Recently my 13 year old son asked me at what age he should expect to ejaculate. I could not give him a proper answer. Can you tell me?

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