How to receive an erotic massage
Following are
some basic points to bear in mind for your first massage - with a professional or with
your partner.
You need to be naked
Clothing gets in the way of the sensation of hands on your skin. Even leaving your underwear on is pointless since it
will only get oily. If you're concerned about being naked,
drape a towel over your genitals until they are ready to be massaged.
Relax
The only thing you need to "do " is to relax as completely as possible. Breathe deeply and regularly, allow
your bodyto sink into the table. As the masseur's hands locate areas of tension, consciously try to let go and release these
tense areas. Be a rag doll. Don't try to be helpful. Simply receive.
There's no need to talk
Talk for the most part is distracting. Giving a good massage takes concentration and talking can get in the way. However, if any manipulation is uncomfortable or if you would like something done longer
or differently don't be afraid to say so.
Feel what you feel
You don't have to express any negative feelings as you are being massaged. But you can, at the very least, sigh with pleasure when you are feeling good.
Close your eyes:
See with your sense of touch. Feel the masseur's hands as they traverse your body.
Enjoy!
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