Penetration

Not surprisingly, the secret to increased pleasure from orgasms and ejaculation lies in being relaxed and willing to explore yourself. A rapid "rub and tug" is not going to lead to the same explosive climax as a slower, more considered approach to self pleasuring. Find out more about oral, anal, straight, gay, bisexual and other fetishes.

1. Do anal sex bottoms have healthier prostates?
   Anal sex may have something to do with having a healthier prostate, though the reason is more likely to be the frequency of ejaculation during your whole life, which forces the prostate to work properly keeping it healthier and less prone to disease.
2. Do straight men swallow semen?
   Who knows? Straight men are the least likely to talk about which parts of their bodies they like.
3. Do you always enjoy sex?
   Do you always enjoy sex? Or do you sometimes think about other things or find that sex has lost some of its flavour or romance? Are you just beginning your exploration of your sexuality? Do you wish for guidance and understanding to help you gain more from that most intimate of activities, sex.
4. Does anal sex hurt?
   Anal sex should be comfortable and pleasurable. There may be initial pain or discomfort when an erect penis enters though that usually passes quickly and can be avoided by relaxing properly first with slow, deep breathing.
5. Eating ass or tossing salad
   Analingus (rimming or eating arse) has become a popular sexual activity for many men who also enjoy other forms of oral sex. If you are thinking of exploring rimming, you might find the following five simple steps useful.
6. Finishing with a bigger bang
   Not surprisingly, the secret to increased pleasure from orgasms and ejaculation lies in being relaxed and willing to explore yourself. A rapid "rub and tug" is not going to lead to the same explosive climax as a slower, more considered approach to self pleasuring.
7. How can I get over my performance anxiety during sex?
   Stop performing! Sex is not a competition. It is not a game to be played until there is a winner.
8. How long does the penis have to be to have good sex?
   Good sex is enjoyable sex - for you and for your partner. If you're worried about how you rate as a lover, it's not your penis size you'll be considering. Even if you have a penis 12 inches long, as thick as your wrist and as rigid as steel you can still be an insensitive, unsensual and selfish lover.
9. Is anal sex natural?
   Yes! Men and women, gays, straight and bisexuals have anuses sensitive to stimulation. Some people like that area touched or penetrated, some people don't, some people can learn to if they want to, others can't.
10. Is it alright to massage my prostate?
    I am male and able to have an orgasm while a man is inside me. I can also do it with my fingers. It feels extremely good, but I'm not sure this is normal. I have never heard of this and it doesn't always happen. Can you tell me why it feels so great?
11. Is it OK to use a condom in the shower?
    Yes, the condom will still provide protection even if it gets wet. The main problem is keeping your penis well lubricated to increase your partner's comfort and to avoid tearing the condom.
12. What should I do my first time?
    I am 19 years old. I am ready to try gay sex for the first time and I want it to be good. What do you recommend for the first time (anal, oral, etc.) so that I can pleasure him right?
13. Why do I lose my erection after I cum?
    Your body is not a machine and needs a little time to recover. It is normal for your penis to go limp after you have ejaculated.